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PUBLISHED ON: 07.30.2021

Use a Mental Health Toolkit for COVID and Social Wellness

At the current point of the pandemic, vaccinations have been rolled out, mask mandates have been lifted, and people are brushing shoulders again. But how has COVID altered our idea of social wellness after periods of isolation, social distancing, and restrictions on social get-togethers?

Social wellness helps people to build supportive relationships, develop a sense of connection, and helps communities more effectively deal with conflict; while this pandemic touched all our lives differently, it’s clear that our general social wellness – and combined mental health – has undergone some serious changes.

Post-Covid Social Anxiety

Since lifting mask bans and social gatherings, many have reported feeling anxiety in social settings. According to Very Well Mind, a 2021 study found that social anxiety symptoms have significantly increased during the shutdowns. This translates to discomfort around large groups, an inability to keep a conversation flowing, or anxiety about new social patterns.

Furthermore, “Rates of social anxiety disorder, school refusal, and agoraphobia increased because people were isolated and avoided social contact for so long.” David Spiegel, associate chair of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at the Stanford School of Medicine and director of the Stanford Center on Stress and Health, notes: “When people start avoiding something, they then associate it as something dangerous or stressful.

We’ve avoided people and places for over a year now. Therefore, it makes sense that we might associate dating, being with people, eating in a restaurant, or participating in a host of activities as dangerous or stressful. Our hypervigilance and ambivalence are byproducts of this association.” (Very Well Mind)

It’s no wonder that the restrictions on social gatherings and distancing rules have resulted in many experiencing social anxiety for the first time during lockdown and upon returning to society. The remedy is to become reacclimated to society slowly and re-accustomed to social interactions. Take walks. Get outside the house once a day. Call or text a friend or relative. These small interactions will add up.

If you are suffering from social anxiety, click here for tips on How to Face Society Again or here for How to Cope with Social Awkwardness After Covid-19.

A Transformed Workplace

When looking at people’s behaviors during the pandemic, the boom of the housing market speaks volumes: When people were given the option to work remotely, lost their job, or changed employment, they were able to reimagine where they’d like to spend their lives, and many left urban life behind in exchange for rural or suburban lifestyles (BBC). While earning a big-city salary while living elsewhere may be appealing, transitioning from a physical office to virtual life comes at a social cost.

When working in an office or similar establishment, you socialize on a daily basis with co-workers, likely have a daily commute, perhaps share lunch with others, etc. For the remote worker, this might now look like virtual meetings, no workplace socializing, and cooking at home. As more and more people go remote or enter a hybrid workplace model, our social glue inherently changes.

Regarding remote working during and post-pandemic, Indranil Roy, Executive Director of Human Capital practice, states “Some lessons learned: we can accomplish most tasks remotely without a significant drop in productivity or quality. Most employees appreciate flexibility, especially those with long commute times. Over time, however, face-to-face interaction is required to facilitate collaboration, build relationships, solve complex challenges, and generate ideas.

Continuous remote work extends the work day, diffuses work-life boundaries, and reduces mental wellbeing. Given these pros and cons, organizations have to rethink their working arrangements. This re-calibration will eventually settle on a sustainable new normal, likely a hybrid workforce and distributed workplace.” (BBC) From an economic perspective, the pandemic showed us that remote workplaces thrive when there is flexibility and trust, and as we enter a new normal, employees and businesses alike need to be mindful of exercising their social muscles.

If you work remotely and are in need of some tips on how to care for your social wellness, click here to read How to Enhance Your Well-Being When Working Remotely.

Dating Post-Pandemic

The pandemic swiftly changed the nature of dating from face-to-face conversations and outings to virtual meetups and online dating. While dating apps saw an increase in users during lockdown, what are they seeing now that restrictions have been lifted and vaccinations have been rolled out?

Tinder reported that its users have become more truthful and transparent, which is similar to reports from Ms. Goldstein of Three Day Rule, whose clients, she reports, have become less superficial.

“In the past, their criteria often mentioned height or wealth. Now more people prioritize inner qualities, like humor or a ‘growth mindset’”, she says. (New York Times)

While people seem to be honed in on what they want more, some seem to prefer meeting in the virtual world, with Hinge reporting that 60% of users will continue to go on video dates before meeting up in the real world post-covid (New York Times). The preference for video dates over face-to-face first dates post-pandemic seems to be the litmus test for how a whole population’s perception on courtship could be changing.

The bottom line: The longer we avoid situations, the more anxiety-provoking they become – so if you’re looking to get out and date, click here for some tips on How to Prepare for Dating Again.

Self-Love & Community Wellness

You know what they say: healthy trees = a healthy forest, so the first step you can take to increase your community’s social wellness is to start with yourself. Take time for self-care and give your mental and physical well-being the attention it deserves. If you suffer from social anxiety post-covid, start working it out slowly, and remember that you’re not alone.

While virtual communities have helped many find their place, seek advice, and feel supported, our physical communities still need us. If you want to become more involved, look into local craft classes you can take, join a local sports club, volunteer for an event, join a neighborhood clean-up, or see if your local library has any program offerings.


BBC: Coronavirus: How the world of work may change forever
New York Times: Has the Pandemic Changed Dating Forever?
Very Well Mind: Adapting to Post-Pandemic Reality When You Have Social Anxiety
Very Well Mind: What to Know About Dating After COVID-19


Jerica Rossi

Jerica Rossi

Jerica Rossi is a Marketing & Marketing Associate of PIMSY EHR. For more information about electronic solutions for your practice, check out Behavioral Health EHR.

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